We established from yesterday that is unhealthy to be obsessed over this one girl. You become afraid to make mistakes and that alone is the mistake.
The solution folks as unromantic as it may sound is this:
1. First recognise that being turned down isn't bad after all. I am the most positive guy that I know of not to brag though. Over the years I have reconditioned my mind for rejection. To be rejected isn't bad after all, infact what is bad is sulking over spilled milk. Valuable time is waisted when other girls need your attention.
2. Recognise that you're caught up and over invested in a girl who isn't yours. The more you wait patiently that guy in her life keeps controlling every thing about her. Point is, act fast and move on.
3. Some guys say to themselves "I want to save that girl from that wrong guy". Dude! Knock it off, you need to save yourself first.
4. Start meeting new women: start talking to a lot of women, be in places where girls are. Be very sociable.
5. Push for closeness with newly made acquaintances:
-ask a girl out
-get her number
-take her out on a date.(explained on my next post)
Before you know it, that one special girl isn't so special after all. In fact she wants to get close to you.
There you have it. Follow this steps and you start counting success my friends
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