There's always this girl that most guys been chasing like forever. You positively absolutely can't stop thinking bout her. She is the most amazing girl in the world your so certain bout that, there isn't any other in the world like her.
Her laughter sounds like the purest angels with music from heaven. Looking at her your heart pounds a thousand times than normal. U know that getting her will be your final bus-stop. Infact maybe you are not a lover boy, marriage type, soul mate fantasies but for her you made an exception.
Well, to be honest with you am not that catch a grenade, sugercoat fairytale guy. However this write up centers on how you can control your heart, mind and ultimately dating life. My advice at this point is anything you give too much priority to, I mean something you are obssessed about becomes too valuable to let go.
Speaking from experience, there was a girl i met in terminus jos just once. Many years past I was fantasising about her without making a real move till it all expired(expiry period and friend zone in my next blog). Un till one day I woke up looking at things logically I discovered she ain't special after all. After sitting in the corner for long obsessing about this girl and always loging in facebook to just see her she was there living her life.
Obsession ain't bad especially when she is as much crazy about you or you are obsessed about a career or something.
What am saying is forget about that girl and let's make new "girl" friends that is more profitable, How? Good!! . As unromantic as it sounds, this is the reason; she has become a poison to you that blinds you from other girl that want your attention. In the movies it. Is always a fairy tale happily ever after. But in real life/this part of Nigeria, you need to drop that girl you have been obssessing about for God knows how long and make new acquaintances ending with many instead of that one.
Listen, dating other girls give you momentum
It reminds you that your attractive
In Jos most girls want to see others there first, more like your CV.
Sometimes it makes that one girl jealous.
Am sure by now u understand that am not suggesting that getting that one girl is the answer.
Ironically, the problem no be say the guy no get scope or skill or the girl is hard to get. The thing is when you invest emotions in woman you will make mistakes all the time. Making mistakes that guys with no attachment have. You hesitate on time to act, I mean you are just afraid of making mistakes.
That is it folks! Outlined solution to this particular problem will be published in my next post. Good luck
Love,
Michael kingyong
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