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Saturday, 11 August 2018

Huddersfield Vs Chelsea (0 - 1) Live - European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) -

nder new management, the Blues will hope to kick off in a better fashion than they did last term by putting three points on the board

Chelsea's 2018-19 Premier League campaign begins on Saturday with an away match against Huddersfield Town , as the Maurizio Sarri era gets under way in earnest.

The Italian, who replaced his compatriot Antonio Conte at the helm of the Stamford Bridge club during the summer, has been imprinting his philosophy on the team in pre-season and there will be an air of expectation at Kirklees Stadium this weekend.

The Blues were already in action last week, falling to a 2-0 defeat against Manchester City in the Community Shield , so they will be eager to bounce back from that by securing three points in the first league game of the season.

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Facebook User Shades His Ex Girlfriend On Her Birthday Who Said He Was Broke - Romance - Nairaland



Facebook user, Kaycee Ichie Oguejiofor shades his ex girlfriend, Amaka on her birthday who he asked out back in 2011 and she responded that she can't date a broke man.

Read his post below...

Hi Amaka,

I know you will read this, how are you enjoying your singledom, not like marriage or relationship is a big deal, but I am very happy in mine. Nothing is perfect but mines is very close to perfection.

I remember the last time I saw you, you were on way to Pastor Peter's Church for prayers. And it's not to tell why. If you don't change even your attitude even the devil will not answer your prayers.

I remember when I asked you out in 2011, and your response was "Delgado I like you, but I can't date a broke man. You said if I am lucky you will still be single when I have made money. And just then you might consider me.

Anyways I don't wish evil or bad on people ọ, far from it... In fact I have only one prayer for you, I honestly pray and money will turn to man and ask for your hand in marriage.
Let me stop here for today happy birthday.


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Officials storm wedding ceremony to stop marriage of 15-year-old girl

Officials storm wedding ceremony to stop marriage of 15-year-old girl



Officials storm wedding ceremony to stop marriage of 15-year-old girl
The wedding of a 15-year-old girl to an older man was disrupted when officials stormed the wedding and put an end to it.


The wedding, between the 15-year-old girl and a 26-year-old man, which was about to hold yesterday in Mumbwa district, Zambia, was stopped when World Vision officials and various stakeholders stormed the venue. 


Officials storm wedding ceremony to stop marriage of 15-year-old girl


After ending the marriage, World Vision, an organisation that protects young girls from early marriages in the country, promised to sponsor the girl to school.

However, the groom who was to marry the teenage girl complained that the organisation has put him in depression after stopping their marriage ceremony. He said it was unfair for the organisation to humiliate him in public and bring the police along as if he were a criminal.

Officials storm wedding ceremony to stop marriage of 15-year-old girl


Tiwa Savage Angry With Tekno And Ciara’s Rip Off Of Her Song ‘Before Nko’ - Celebrities

Just months after Tekno was called out by veteran group Danfo Drivers for an unauthorized use of their hit Jogodo in a remix of the same title, singer Tiwa Savage is on a warpath with Tekno for the same infringement.

Sometimes last week, American R&B diva Ciara announced a collaboration with the MMMG signed Tekno titled ‘Freak Me ’. It was apparent that being aware of the growing African music industry, Ciara tapped on one of the most known voice on the continent, Tekno. The video to the song was released almost simultaneously.


However, Tekno was conspicuously missing. In the same vein, unlike Ciara who excitedly shared the artwork for the single, Tekno refrained from doing so- which artiste-turned-Instagram blogger Tunde Ednut pointed out.

It didn’t take fans long to recognize the striking similarities between the new song ‘ Freak Me’ and a song on Tiwa Savage’s 2015 album RED titled ‘ Before Nko’.


NET can exclusively confirm that neither Tekno nor Ciara obtained clearance or permission from Tiwa Savage before infringing on her copyright, a move that has left the talented mother of one extremely aggrieved.

A member of Tiwa Savage’s camp who spoke to us exclusively on the condition of anonymity revealed the level of disappointment she has in Tekno, whom she considered a friendly colleague; not in the least because they both are Pepsi ambassadors and know each other well.


‘We were surprised that they went that route. They didn’t even just sample some strings, the beat and lyrics of the hook are basically the same. Tiwa is extremely upset because it seems like a rip off of her sweat.’

Asked if there were any enquiries from the Ubi Franklin led MMMG, the answer was negative. ‘They didn’t ask or inform us before the song was made. As a matter of fact, we reached out to them when we heard the song but they didn’t do us the courtesy of even responding.

This is not how to do things. Tekno himself is not sharing links to the song as much as his boss Ubi is. This is
wrong‘, our well-placed source said.


He added too that ‘It may not have been in Ciara’s place to know that the song belonged to someone else but the onus was on Tekno as the featured act and producer (who we believe gave the song to her anyway) to inform her.’
On our part, we contacted Ubi Franklin before filing this report. Calls were not answered and text messages sent to him were not replied at the time of publishing this.


Although Tiwa Savage (along with Don Jazzy, his brother
DPrince ) was listed as one of the composers on streaming sites such as TIDAL, she believes that does not suffice as ‘permission’.

It is the second time this year that Tekno would be accused of song theft. In May, the duo of
Mountain Black and Med Melon called him out for appropriating their early 2000’s hit Jogodo . Tekno did not deny the charge but soon after was seen with the singers in an apparent reconciliatory mode.

Last year, he was also criticized for interpolating parts of 50cent’s In Da Club in his Go sing
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15 Skills And Values Employers Need From Job Seekers - Jobs/Vacancies

Most job-seekers wish they could unlock the secret formula to winning the hearts and minds of employers. What, they wonder, is that unique combination of skills and values that make employers salivate with excitement?

Every employer is looking for a specific set of skills from job-seekers that match the skills necessary to perform a particular job. But beyond these job-specific technical skills, certain skills are nearly universally sought by employers. The good news is that most job-seekers possess these skills to some extent. The better news is that job-seekers with weaknesses in these areas can improve their skills through training, professional development, or obtaining coaching/mentoring from someone who understands these skills.

The best news is that once you understand the skills and characteristics that most employer seek, you can tailor your job-search communication — your resume, cover letter, and interview language — to showcase how well your background aligns with common employer requirements.

Numerous studies have identified these critical employability skills, sometimes referred to as “soft skills.” We’ve distilled the skills from these many studies into this list of skills most frequently mentioned. We’ve also included sample verbiage describing each skill; job-seekers can adapt this verbiage to their own resumes, cover letters, and interview talking points.

So, what are these critical employability skills that employers demand of job-seekers?

1. Communications Skills (listening, verbal, written). By far, the one skill mentioned most often by employers is the ability to listen, write, and speak effectively. Successful communication is critical in business.

2. Analytical/Research Skills. Deals with your ability to assess a situation, seek multiple perspectives, gather more information if necessary, and identify key issues that need to be addressed.

3. Computer/Technical Literacy. Almost all jobs now require some basic understanding of computer hardware and software, especially word processing, spreadsheets, and email.

4. Interpersonal Abilities. The ability to relate to your co-workers, inspire others to participate, and mitigate conflict with co-workers is essential given the amount of time spent at work each day.

5. Leadership/Management Skills. While there is some debate about whether leadership is something people are born with, these skills deal with your ability to take charge and manage your co-workers.

6. Planning/Organizing. Deals with your ability to design, plan, organize, and implement projects and tasks within an allotted timeframe. Also involves goal-setting.

7. Problem-Solving/Reasoning/Creativity. Involves the ability to find solutions to problems using your creativity, reasoning, and past experiences along with the available information and resources.

8. Teamwork. Because so many jobs involve working in one or more work-groups, you must have the ability to work with others in a professional manner while attempting to achieve a common goal.

9. Honesty/Integrity/Morality. Employers probably respect personal integrity more than any other value, especially in light of the many recent corporate scandals.

10. Adaptability/Flexibility. Deals with openness to new ideas and concepts, to working independently or as part of a team, and to carrying out multiple tasks or projects.

11. Dedication/Hard-Working/Work Ethic/Tenacity. Employers seek job-seekers who love what they do and will keep at it until they solve the problem and get the job done.

12. Professionalism. Deals with acting in a responsible and fair manner in all your personal and work activities, which is seen as a sign of maturity and self-confidence; avoid being petty.

13. Self-Confidence. Look at it this way: if you don’t believe in yourself, in your unique mix of skills, education, and abilities, why should a prospective employer? Be confident in yourself and what you can offer employers.

14. Self-Motivated/Ability to Work With Little or No Supervision. While teamwork is always mentioned as an important skill, so is the ability to work independently, with minimal supervision.

15. Willingness to Learn. No matter what your age, no matter how much experience you have, you should always be willing to learn a new skill or technique. Jobs are constantly changing and evolving, and you must show an openness to grow and learn with that change.

Final Thoughts on Employability Skills and Values

Employability skills and personal values are the critical tools and traits you need to succeed in the workplace — and they are all elements that you can learn, cultivate, develop, and maintain over your lifetime. Once you have identified the sought-after skills and values and assessed the degree to which you possess, them remember to document them and market them (in your resume, cover letter, and interview answers) for job-search success.

17-Year-Old Girl Cuts Off Her Boyfriend's Manhood In Jigawa With A Knife - Crime

By Aliyu M. Hamagam,



A girlfriend to a secondary school teacher in Babura town of Jigawa state,

Ramlatu Tafida, 17, has chopped off the manhood of her boyfriend, Abdullahi Sabo, 25, with a knife.

Sabo, who is left with a dangling manhood has been hospitalized in Aminu Kano Teaching Hospital Kano.

While Miss Tafida, has since been arraigned on three count charges of attempt to commit culpable homicide, assault and for taking law into her hand.

Nigerian Men On Twitter Share Hilarious Spiteful Things Women Did To Them - Romance

Nigerian men on Twitter yesterday shared hiliarious spiteful things women have ever done to them. The stories will leave you in stitches!

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Young Nigerian Homosexuals Living With HIV Confess - Health

Shocking confessions of adolescent homosexuals living with HIV

TWENTY-SIX-YEAR-OLD Mike wears an innocent look. He is highly trusted by his parents who believe that he would never keep them in the dark about anything concerning his life. But contrary to the parents’ conviction, he is a homosexual; a practice he adopted from a tender age but has kept away from them.

Besides being a homosexual, the young man is also living with the HIV virus; another matter he has kept away from his parents’ knowledge. Even on occasions when the parents voice out their concern for people living with HIV, Mike joins them to do so without them knowing that their son is also a victim.

“I knew about my status in 2013 and started treatment the same year,” he said.

“I was 21 years old when I discovered that I am HIV-positive. I was a little bit sober when I learnt about it, but at the same time, I was well informed about HIV before I did the test. Before then, I was a member of dedication peers educating and sensitising people about HIV. So, when I learnt about mine, it wasn’t much of a problem because I had good information about it. I just felt that life must go on.”



Asked how his parents reacted to his HIV status, Mike responded: “My parents are not in any way aware of it. I haven’t told them because I feel they do not have good information about HIV. They still feel that the virus is a death sentence because it is incurable.”

Telling our correspondent how he contracted the virus, Mike said: “I am convinced that I got the virus through sex and no other means. I am gay, but I do show feelings for females too. I grew up being a homosexual. When I was about 12 years old, I started admiring boys like me as if they were females. I started practising homosexuality while I was still in primary school.

“In those days, we would only admire and touch each other. If there was no one at home, we would engage in some plays, saying your thing is bigger than mine. Gradually, it developed into full blown homosexuality.

“We do go to hotels or friends’ houses to have fun. We prefer going to a friend’s house because privacy is more guaranteed there than in a hotel. When I am in need, I approach my sex partners and they assist with whatever they have.”

Asked how he woos his same sex partners into a relationship, Mike said: “It is not about approaching the other person. It is by contact. When we see each other, the body chemistry tells us we are one.”

Completely ruling out the thought of getting married, he said: “I don’t want to marry. I want to enjoy my life to the fullest.”



While Mike is unruffled about his status, he is greatly disturbed by reports of foreign donors withdrawing their support for HIV treatment.

He said: “People will go mad and mentally upset if donors withdraw. Do you know how much the drug costs? Apart from people dying, if foreign donors withdraw, many victims will start doing what they are not supposed to do just to survive.

“Death is secondary in this matter, because I believe that if you are going to die, it will take a long while. Imagine somebody earning N15,000 a month and has to pay N10,000 a month for the drug. How would he cope? It will cause many more to sleep around, and it is not everybody who wants to sleep with you wants protected sex. Some people are ready to pay N100,000 to make love without any protection.


Like Mike, like others

Mike is not alone in the business of keeping his parents in the dark about his status. Another victim, Onoja, does.

Onoja said: “I became aware of my HIV status in 2014 at the age of 18. My parents are not aware of my status because I don’t want them to start thinking about my problem. It is my problem and not theirs. From my estimation, I think I became positive through sexual intercourse.

I became bi-sexual by force and not by choice, because I would need to get married one day and have children because of my mum and dad.

“Even if I don’t get married, someone will get pregnant for me. If I am in another country where there is understanding, I will not be bi-sexual. I am gay. Nobody initiated me into it. It has been in me right from the time I started having feelings for the opposite sex; I also started having feelings for people of same sex too. So, I started practising homosexuality with my neighbours. Whenever we were doing drama as children, I would be the wife and another boy would be the husband. We would start touching from there.



“I had my first homosexual relationship have had many other same sex partners thereafter. I was already into it while I was in secondary school, but we never went beyond touching each other. But when I left school, I started having intercourse and became HIV-positive.”

Speaking on his challenge as an HIV victim, Onoja said: “The challenge I have is that I have to hide to take my medication in the house so that my parents would not know about it. I am also very much afraid about the issue of donors withdrawing. If that happens, what would happen to people like us? The government should see how they can work with the funders

“I have colleagues who have died but I feel that they died because they wanted to. This is because they refused to go for treatment. Others were not taking their medications regularly and these are medications that you must take every day and at a particular time. If you stop taking them, the virus will get stronger and compound your health condition. Some of our colleagues still engage in unprotected sex. “

It was another disturbing revelation when our correspondent spoke with Robinson who unequivocally declared that he was gay.

He said: “I am a gay. I became a homosexual when I was in SS1. Nobody introduced me to it. I just found myself having sexual feelings for people of the same sex. But I didn’t practise it then. I started practising it in 2013.

“It was from this that I got HIV virus, because nobody taught me about safe sex. Some of my sex partners may be having the virus too. But I stopped engaging in unprotected sex with my partners immediately I became aware of my status.”


Like his peers, Robinson said his parents were also not aware of his nature as a gay and his HIV status.

“I tested positive in 2015 but I started treatment a year later. I was 25 years old then. My parents are not aware of my status. I didn’t tell them because I don’t know how they would react to it. I was seeing horrible things the first day I took my anti-retroviral drug.”

He said he would only get married for the purpose of pleasing his parents. “I would want to get married in future because of family pressure and belief system. Otherwise, I would not want to get married. I want to be a surrogate father. Marriage is not what I want.”


Peculiar case

For Gabriel, the story is a bit different as he is not a homosexual. But he told our correspondent that his status as a person living with HIV has changed his sexual orientation.

He said: “I knew about my status in November 2015. I knew about it when I went with to a friend’s organisation on Ireti Street, Yaba, Lagos. I don’t want to tell my parents about it. Their reaction could be to throw me out of the house or disown me or try to know how I got the virus. That kind of reaction will affect me mentally and emotionally and that could hinder me from handling the challenge.

“I do have sexual urge and everybody has to handle it his own way. I am now asexual. I have sex with myself and I am satisfied. I know I can use condom but I won’t. I do have fears about my status. Who wouldn’t? I lost a victim colleague and it was very painful to me. When the fear of death strikes you, you would imagine that you could be next.”

Gabriel also dismissed the idea of getting married, saying: “Marriage is not on my mind. I just want to be successful. I don’t want to see myself getting married even in the future because I don’t want to put a burden on another person. I just want to be on my own. Ninety per cent of me is saying no to marriage.”


Violated by reckless landlord

It was a completely different story with Adesola, a lady living with the HIV virus. She has gone through humiliation, violation and rejection after she tested positive to HIV.

Reliving her ordeal, Adesola said: “I knew about my status in 2013. It began when I started falling sick in 2011. It started with a cut, then big boils and serious coughing. I started taking codeine to take care of it to no avail. The challenge resulted in sleepless nights.

“At a point, my body started itching and it was always as if a screw driver was going through my skin. Pus and blood always came out of the itchy spots.

“I was 19 years old when I discovered my status. The hospital told my mother about it after I was admitted but I didn’t even know. It was a friend that sent a text message to me that I am HIV-positive. The hospital didn’t get my consent before telling anybody about my status. Outsiders knew about my status before I did.”

With her status already a public issue, Adesola said she faced serious stigmatisation even among his sibblings. “My mother wasn’t hostile to me but my siblings were. My younger sister who was initially on my side later turned against me. I got stigmatised everywhere around me. I faced hell and slept in the passage for two years in my grandfather’s house, all because I am HIV-positive.”

Added to the pains of being stigmatised, Adesola tearfully recalls how a neighbour she sought shelter in his room violated her.

She said: “When I was discharged from the hospital and had to sleep in the passage, there was a heavy rain on one of the nights and I could not cope with the weather condition. I had to go and beg our neighbour to allow me sleep in his room. But he took advantage of that and violated me. I got pregnant and had a four-year-old girl as a result of that. The man didn’t know my status. I didn’t get married to him and I don’t even know where he has been in the past four years.

“The manner I had my baby was not a good thing, but my girl is making me feel on top of the world. The way I got the pregnancy was not a good way at alI; I was violated.

“I will educate my child about my status. I will let her know I was positive when I got her pregnancy. I will make her understand that being positive is not the end of the world. I will make her understand that HIV is even better than malaria.”

In spite of the unpleasant experience, she said: “I want to get married. I really wish to get married.”

She also expressed concern about dwindling support from foreign donors. “It gives me fears. In my own facility, we don’t pay to get treatment. But in some facilities, they have been paying for the past two years. Some pay between N5,000 and N6,000, and these are people who cannot afford a square meal a day for themselves.

“The implication is simply massive death. Those without strong immune system will consequently drop to the second line. I can say that 60 per cent of people living with HIV do not have good jobs.”


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